Dear Confused Husband,
Separation from your spouse is hard enough when you see it coming, but when you don’t, you can feel blindsided and betrayed by the one you love most. Nothing will heal the sting of that wound but time, which is small comfort in your time of need.
Has your wife truly given you no reason for her behavior? And is her behavior really as sudden as you think? Sometimes, when confronted with information we are reluctant to hear, we turn a blind eye and a deaf ear to the messages our partners are sending us. Your wife may have been telling you that her needs were not being met, and you just were not receptive to her cries for help.
If that is the case, then there may still be a chance for your marriage to succeed, but you need to put everything you have into making it work. Flat-out ask your wife what you can do to keep your marriage together. What does she need from you that she has not been getting? What can you do to make her life easier, and help her to remember why she married you to begin with?
Unfortunately, some marriages are destined to fail, and there is little we can do to stop their dissolution. If your marriage is not fated to last, be sure not to make it an ugly end by being cruel or insensitive. Foster an environment of trust, understanding, and communication, and you may be able to at least remain friends.
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