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What can I do to get over my boyfriend dumping me?

Dear Horoscope, what can I do to get over my boyfriend dumping me? We dated for five entire years, through some high school and college, and I have no idea what to do now. He’s literally the person that I spent the most time with, and has been for the last half decade of my life. We used to joke not too long ago about how we had reached a level of inevitability that should have scared us, but really didn’t. Then he went on some mission trip to Africa with a group of other random Catholic people, and it was never the same. He apparently met some chick there, and he cheated on me with her while they were there (That’s right, on a church trip, because class). Then instead of coming back and groveling at my feet for forgiveness, he dumped me, and I had to find out from somebody else that he had found someone else in Africa of all places. The worst part though? She goes to the same school as me and my now ex-boyfriend. I need someone to tell me how to get over this, because I have a
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I can imagine, being dumped is never a pleasant thing, especially when you think about the duration of the relationship and how much you have invested in it. But, while it’s common for women to fixate on their ex-relationship and try to repair it, part of our culture’s post breakup scenario is that we are all sure to find love again. So, that’s good news right there, right? Besides, in time the feelings of the loss or heartbreak should recede, even though it may feel like something impossible at first. For now, focus on the future, shake off those grips of misery and get back in the game, girl. And remember, if you’re ex was too stupid to see how special you are then sorry to say this, but he really was a waste of time.

I know that’s all easier said than done, because there is no instant cure for that stomach churning realization of loss you are feeling right now. But trust me, while most people see breakups as a disaster, it is really a chance for change, a chance for personal growth and the opportunity for things to be better than they were before. All you need to do is stay positive, and remember your life cannot be nothing without this man, right? Because your life is yours alone and you are not nothing. Expert answer - Find more experts: click here!

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Find another one or just forget about him, your life is so much bigger and important than one single guy who by the way, is not as valuable as you thought just for the simple fact that he didn't appreciate how important you we're and couldn't handle with all of your beauty and clever. Get over him, find something to do that will distract you and never forget that you are worth it and you are beautiful, surround yourself with people who will make you feel good about yourself and will support you. Remember always to love Yourself. Soon someone will appear on your life and will make you realize how dumb your ex is, he is just some piece of trash, forget him and let him have a depressing life alone.

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