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Should I tell him I'm in love with him?

Niamh asked
I recently fell in love with the man of my dreams. He's shown signs that he also fancies me too. The only problem is he has a girlfriend. I don't want to wreck their relationship but something inside me feels like I should tell him how I feel. Should I not bother or should I tell him? And if so how should I say it?
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Niamh,

You certainly are in a sticky situation with a number of different solutions. What does your gut feeling tell you to do?

The first option you have is to tell him. Explain how you feel, and ask him how he feels. If you’re right, and he says he does feel the same way, you will need to be prepared for the next part of the conversation. What do you want him to do about his girlfriend? Are you comfortable with the idea of breaking up their relationship?

Your second option is to wait. Continue to live your life, and if it is meant to happen, his current relationship will dissolve without your help. Just be sure not to put your own life on hold in waiting for him, especially if you’re not sure how he really feels.

Your last option is to move on. He’s in a relationship now. How do you know he will ever leave it? Unfortunately, many people wait around for the one they love to leave a current relationship, but it never happens. In the meantime, they waste their lives in anticipation of something that will never be.

This is a big decision, Niamh, and not one to be made lightly. Good luck! Expert answer - Find more experts: click here!

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He already has a girlfriend! What makes you think he will leave her for you. And even if he did leave her you'd be a fool to think he wouldn't do the same to you. Move on.

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He's not going to leave her for you. And even if he did what makes you think he wouldn't do the same to you. Have some standards and move on.

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I have the same problem :| and I decided to waiting, cause I know he has the same feeling, even a little.. but I still respect on others, so I'm not wasting my life..

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