Dear Hopeless in Love:
Everyone faces breakups and heartbreaks at some point in their life, but some are less lucky in love than others. When none of your relationships work out, and worse, if they all end in total disaster, it will lead you to believe that something is inherently wrong with you. The sad part is – it’s probably true!
But, take heart, there is plenty that you can do to make yourself into a better partner before your next relationship is doomed to be another failure. Sit down and take stock of your life. Make a list of what you have to offer a partner, then follow it with another list, this one a list of your qualities that might not be as desirable to a potential partner as you would like.
After that, on a whole new sheet of paper, tick off all the qualities you want in a partner, then a list of the qualities you NEED in a partner. Be careful, because these lists might try to overlap; absolute honesty is the only way that this list is going to be the helpful tool that it is designed to be.
At this point, you need to study all four lists. Which characteristics in yourself pair nicely with characteristics of your ideal partner? And which do you know need work? Make plans to work on each of these less-than-ideal quirks until you have more positive qualities than negative to offer a potential date. After that, it’s time to get back into the dating game. Good luck! Expert answer - Find more experts: click here!