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I can't forget about him, help

Dear horoscope, 3 years ago I fell for a guy who I didn't even met, however I stalked him and was fully in love with him. After time passed, I realized I couldn't be in love with a guy who doesn't know I exist, so I just did everything to forget about him. Later, one day on a camp I had with my friends he showed up and we talked, so after this day, I couldn't stop thinking about
Him, I knew we was something special however he didn't see that in me, I think he doesn't even remember my name. That was a year ago. Lately, I've been thinking a lot about him and began stalking him again, and even though I know he never thinks about me, cause as I already said he doesn't remember me, I have a feeling that he would be my perfect pair, and I feel sort of a connection with him, however the only way to meet him again and become his friend is if I go back to training (I practice swimming and that's how I met him, he is not of my team but is friend of my friends), the problem is that my swimming friends are not as friends as you would imagine and I am not very close to them, and I haven't gone swimming for like 3 months, so I don't know how to go back to swimming and reintegrate in my friends group so in meets or in my friends parties I can meet him and maybe we can keep talking. The problem also is that many people have told me to forget about him and move on, however as I said I really feel he could be my soulmate and I don't want to forget about him, I have had dreams with him and I feel destiny has given some signs and clues about him. Please help, I dont know what to do
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If you really want to be with this guy there are a few things you MUST do. First, you have to reintroduce yourself to him. You do not have to rejoin the swim team to do this, you just need to ask about how to get a hold of him. You need to be 100% completely honest about how long you have been stalking him and thinking about him. Only after you fully disclose this to him can he make the decision of whether or not HE wants to be with YOU as well, or pursue any kind of relationship.

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Laurillacart,

First of all, I think you need to take a step back and reevaluate how you have been living these last 3 years. Are you comfortable having dedicated your life to a man who doesn’t even know you? Can you see the forest for the trees, or are you in too deep? It sounds to me that you have a classic Celebrity Worship Syndrome.

Do you recognize any of the following symptoms in yourself?
* inability to have successful personal relationships in their own lives
* social awkwardness
* feelings of powerlessness
* a sense of insecurity
* very low self-esteem

If so, you should seek professional help for Simple Obsessional Stalking before it escalates.

If not, then you have just become too intensely fascinated with this guy. Do you really know him? How can you know he’s a potential soulmate if you have only ever met him once? You need to move on, Laurillacart, and let go of this fascination before it eats you alive. Expert answer - Find more experts: click here!

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Listen I understand u I totally do but just look at what your saying it's all about what you do and you have to do this and that just so you could see this guy . You were made to love and live and be happy . You do not have to work so hard to prove to yourself or anyone that this person likes you or is your friend or talks to you that is their job . If they don't notice how great u are move on someone else will . Your putting your self in a sisuation you don't need to be in . Whatever happens happens just keep moving forward don't force it :)

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What you are drawn to is destiny and it is truly drawn to you. As a Taurus overcome the fear and speak the truth. You have already started by this reply now go seek him. Anserws await and don't fall to regrets. Conquer you fear and do it!

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Do what you want. No one has the right answer. Life will go on either way. Put your faith in God and let him lead the way

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