Dear Lost Ex-Lover:
Losing someone near and dear to us is something to be grieved, which is why many people spend an extended period of time thinking about and pining over an ex. But when you cannot move on even though you know the time has come, you may have to push yourself out of the rut you’re in with a major change.
The change you need to make sounds simpler than it is. Cut off all communication with your ex-girlfriend. It may sound painful, cruel, and like it’s too difficult for you, but you have to go into this change with the knowledge that your life will be so much better once she is a distant memory. And the only way to change this lingering longing into just a memory is to send her packing.
If she has many other boyfriends, she doesn’t need you hanging around. It sounds like maybe she has put you on the back burner, keeping you available in case she needs a shoulder to cry on. It isn’t her trying to be mean. It’s just human nature to want to know that someone is going to be there for us.
Don’t be too hard on her, or yourself, as this process goes on through all the stages of loss. You will find that, after a while, you have started to move on. She won’t be on your mind as much. You’ll start to see that there are other women in the world, and one of them is going to be your next girlfriend. Good luck! Expert answer - Find more experts: click here!
Hey. I just got over a breakup and it's been 5 weeks. An honestly I feel great. But sometimes I think about her but it's not heartache when I do. I promise you and read this next sentence closely. Trust God to help you through it. What I mean by that is pray to God about it and let him work his miracle. You have to have the attitude like god walk with me through this fire instead of taken the pain away. Because trust me you want the pain because I promise you learn in the process. So just believe God allow you in that situation so he will help you through it. Just trust and pray To God and he will do it. When we first broke up I was so broken hearted and hurt. Now 5weeks later I feel better then ever. It's like a weight been lift off my shoulder. Don't turn to other to help you get over that person. "Rebound Dating". Just stick to yourself and pray and please please please please please!!!!!! Believe God allowing you to go through this and he will see you through this. So trust Jesus Christ