Don’t despair! Sexiness is not always an inborn talent. With a little research and practice, you’ll be knocking his socks off in no time.
The first question I have for you is what you want to get out of being sexy. If your goal is to set a sexy mood, that can be done with a number of gestures and facial expressions. I know you said you can’t wink, but you can probably bite your lip. You can also lick your lips, but be sure not to go overboard, or you run the risk of looking like a kid with ice cream on her mouth.
If your goal is to arouse your boyfriend, listen and watch him closely. He will let you know, whether verbally or nonverbally, what he finds arousing. Does he like Catwoman? Maybe he’s into chicks in leather. The Hunger Games? Perhaps you can study Katniss and emulate some of her mannerisms.
Before responding to questions like, “What are you wearing?,” try to consider what he might want to hear. It’s probably not an oversized t-shirt. How about a sheer, lace nightgown, or nothing at all? Think sexy, but not sleazy; somewhere in the middle between librarian and porn star should do the trick.
At its most basic, RockyChild1, sexiness is all an attitude. If you feel sexy, you’ll come across as sexy. Good luck! Expert answer - Find more experts: click here!