It sounds like this guy has you shoved onto the emotional back-burner. When he needs someone to talk to, you are always just a text message or call away, but when he doesn’t need you, the responsibility is always on you to make contact.
You need to step away from this former lover and get a clear picture in your mind of what you want. Is he really the one for you, or are you just stuck in the fuzzy memory of a past love? Does his current behavior tell you that he still feels as strongly about you as you do about him? If not, then it is time for you to move on.
Don’t take his calls or texts, and stop being the one to reach out to him. Work on yourself. Perhaps, if you can afford it or have the right insurance, you can make an appointment with a therapist to work through the issues that the loss of this relationship has caused. It could be that you have leftover pain from a previous loss, such as the loss of a friend or family member. Or maybe this is a sign of a more serious condition, such as depression, that needs to be treated by a licensed professional.
Take care of yourself first and foremost, and good luck on the next chapter of your life. Expert answer - Find more experts: click here!