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am i with the wrong partner or the right partner ..weve been together for 10 years staying together but he still doubt marriage

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Am i dating the man whose going to marry me or is it just a waste of time...i need clousure & if hes not the one i need to make the right decission while i still can..please help me find the truth about this man i call the father of my kids
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Dear Truth-Seeker:

As much as it might sound like a cop-out, the only person who can tell you if you are dating the right man for you is you. Based on the amount of confusion and doubt you seem to be feeling, though, I would say that you really need to dig deep and figure out where all this negativity is coming from. Is it your “gut” telling you that he isn’t the right guy, and that you need to move on before it’s too late? Or is it a deep-seated fear of rejection that is pushing you to run from this relationship?

Here's one way to figure out if he is the ideal man for you which has worked for many, many people in the past, and continues to work to this day. Clear your mind. If you need to meditate, turn off all electronics, and go to a quiet spot in the park or your back yard, do that first. Grab two pieces of paper and a pen.
Concentrate on your ideal man, the one who has marriage material written all over him, the guy that could sweep you off your feet and marry you tomorrow if he walked into your life. Write down everything you can about this man. Be idealistic. Be brave. Write down everything you need and want a man to be.

On the second piece of paper, think really hard on the man you’re with, and write down all his positive traits. Be honest and brave on this list, too. Don’t say he’s a charmer if he sits around scratching his belly and passing gas all day. When you’re finished, compare both lists. Does the guy you’re with meet AT LEAST half of your Ideal Man criteria? If not, you need to figure out why you’re with him, and if this relationship is worth giving up all those positive traits that you need or want in a man.

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